My Dearest Young Filipina, Educate Yourself


My Dearest Young Filipina,

Educate yourself. Who is going do it for you? Your politicians won’t help. They are too busy figuring out how to keep you ignorant and poor so they can go on manipulating you.

Educate yourself about your health, how to avoid getting pregnant at age 13 or contracting sexually transmitted diseases because no one else is going to tell you how. Your church is tight lipped about the matter and will continue to say, ” no pre marital sex for you.” And because you cannot pin your hopes on the aborted RH bill as your politicians cannot risk you becoming an independent woman who has a say and control over your own body and therefore your votes.

Educate yourself so you can stop waiting for Mr. Prince Charming to help you. He is broke and his treasure chest has gone bankrupt. He needs help too.

Educate yourself so you can get off the Internet trying to find a 70 year old white man to marry you and save you. Or send you money. So the world can stop saying majority of the Filipinas are prostitutes.

Educate yourself so you don’t have to post naked pictures of yourself on Facebook for likes and be someday a rich man’s doormat. Or a porn star. So you can tell your father or brother they should get a job and provide for the family instead. So you can argue with your mother that you being only 12 years old, you are too damn young and naive to work in the middle east for people whose culture are very different from yours. So your lifeless body would not be found floating in the drainage in the basement of their house later on. So you can tell her that falsifying your age on official documents is very wrong.

Educate yourself so you can stop gyrating half naked on noontime shows while lecherous men leer and pawn on you. So you can avoid powerful men from using and abusing you.

Educate yourself so you don’t have to end up in a sex slavery trade. So you can report any pervert who will make you an indecent offer. So you can stay away from men of shady character.

Educate yourself so you’ll never lose your self respect and pride. There are worse things than hunger.

Educate yourself so you can have the confidence to tell your friends that there is more to life than expensive handbags, iPhones and designer labels.

Educate yourself because only education can help you survive the quagmire that is our country. Read. Learn. Learn to read. Be aware of what is happening around you. What is happening in your country and in the world. Be proactive about your future. Since you cannot rely on your government nor society, you have to rely on yourself to be well informed and educated. You cannot rely on your beauty forever for it fades sooner than you think. Only wisdom and knowledge can help you cope and understand the long complicated life ahead of you.

Your very concerned Ate

*If you are a young Filipina or just someone who is concern about the eroding quality of young people’s education please share.

15 thoughts on “My Dearest Young Filipina, Educate Yourself

  1. Thank you for following my blog DAYARI. I’m reading some of your stuff–they are good.

    1. Thank you. ๐Ÿ™‚ Hoping for the youth of the Philippines to awaken from their apathy and help themselves instead of waiting for the government to help them especially in their education not just passing school but to be really educated in things that matters.

    1. Thank you. I am glad young people like you are reading and liking it and (I am hoping) sharing it. We really need to encourage other young women who had lost their enthusiasm in learning to equip themselves with good education ๐Ÿ™‚

  2. Very touching post.. I pray that we continue guiding all the youth.. Not only here in philippines but the whole world… Thank you.. AND GOD BLESS US.

  3. What a lovely way of stating the difficult truth which would just be ignored/deflected by most Filipinos. The young women (in all countries) need to be told these things. I waited an hour after reading this to comment, your honesty is very touching.

    1. Thank you Phil for reading this post and for leaving a thoughtful comment. I really feel sad that young people nowadays are putting less and less importance to education.

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