jalal michael sabbagh on October 10, 2012 at 6:45 pm said:
Jofelyn,your post about women being second class citizens is true in most 3rd.world country .l believe firmly God created us equal.Man is the one who invented laws to be the boss.I believe Women will do much better job if they rule the WORLD.My regards.jalal
Jofelyn M. Khapra on October 11, 2012 at 6:30 am said:
Jalal I would rather live in a world where a person is no longer define by gender but as human. Where he and she is irrelevant. The person who have the best capacity to rule should rule regardless of gender. 🙂
Ruth Rainwater on October 11, 2012 at 12:44 am said:
Unfortunately, it isn’t only in 3rd world countries where women are second class citizens, but in the US also. Women have come a long way here, but there is still a long way to go. I look forward to a time when women can be who and what they want to be, just like men are.
Jofelyn M. Khapra on October 11, 2012 at 6:26 am said:
I and my husband had been discussing this same issue a few weeks back, we came to the same conclusion, sadly.
‘Anyone could tell us two writers shouldn’t be together. Or rather, that a competitive American shouldn’t be with a woman who has written a book.’
‘That’s right,’ he said. ‘It’s a challenge to my sexual superiority, and that isn’t a joke.’
‘I know it isn’t. But please don’t give me any more of your pompous socialist lectures about the equality of men and women.’
‘I shall probably give you pompous lectures because I enjoy it. But I won’t believe in them myself. The truth is, I resent you for having written a book which was a success. And I’ve come to the conclusion I’ve always been a hypocrite, and in fact I enjoy a society where women are second-class citizens, I enjoy being boss and being flattered.’
‘Good,’ I said. ‘Because in a society where not one man in ten thousand begins to understand the ways in which women are second-class citizens, we have to rely for company on the men who are at least not hypocrites.’
‘And now we’ve settled that, you can make me some coffee, because that is your role in life.’
‘It will be a pleasure,’ I said, and we had breakfast in good-humour, liking each other.
– from The Golden Notebook by Doris Lessing